Every time we have a fight same thing, same old bald guy I see. I think I got the wrong message when I decided to marry him. I only filed 3 months leave of absence from my work when I came here. He wanted me to resign right away but I told him I’ll just take a leave and made him promise that if ever we fight and gotten worst just return me to my home. The couple of weeks since I arrived in US we already had big fight, and during that month we had one huge fight that made me packed my things and called my sister for a ticket. He begged and asked for another chance. I went for a walk and thought about it and at the same time worried about my baby because I was a month pregnant then. After our fight he showed changes but not for long. We had countless of fights and many times in those fights I begged him to buy me a ticket back home. He broke his promise many times and hurt me emotionally countless of times. Now we have two children and he is still the selfish, bastard, jerk and childish person. He does not want me to leave and won’t let me go. I had enough of his yelling attitudes, swearing, greedy, and selfish. It hurts me when he yells at my kids every time he nap at the couch and woke him up from their noises. Knock! Knock! Helloooooo they are kids, in fact they are still baby grow up jerk! It’s tiring on my part that I watch my kids all day, do stuff around and more and not even bothers to take us out. I work hard on blogging to earn money because I don’t like to ask, but even the small amount I earned he asked half of it. Well last year he took all of it every month and just handed me $20. I save my money so I could buy things I like including food I want. The most pathetic part of all, every time we fight he changes our computer password so I can’t used it and said that every thing in our house are all his including me. How nice of a husband is that? I know I have shortcoming too and bad sides but not as devil-ish as he is. It’s too late for me to found this kind of attitude. I really do not know if there is some hope for this bald guy to be at least considerate, and act like human being. Now, she asked for a divorce he refuses to talk. Do not know if divorce will be answer to the problem.